Meet Me

Disciplinarian/Domme

All services are available to anyone over the age of 21 years, however a limit of what I do will be applied to those under 25 (particularly my Domme services) All genders are welcome.  LGBTQ+ safe. 

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My Appearance:

I always arrive to sessions, meets, and dates very clean and well presented. I take pride in my appearance and I genuinely enjoy looking pretty and glamourous - but not heavily made up. I will be delicately fragranced (I like to moisturise myself in cocoa butter and wear soft vanilla fragrances). Unless you state so otherwise, I generally like to wear beautiful lingerie and oftentimes stockings and suspenders or tights.

I show up looking classically smart, yet unassuming - so no, I won't be arriving to your hotel suite in one of my old stripper outfits from back in the day,  (I'd be happy to change into it once we're securely in our room though!). 

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I'm 5'5" and I have a petite, toned build and small, pert breasts. I wear a UK dress size 6 - But whilst I am slim, I do have an ample, peachy bottom for spanking (if that's your thing!). I have UK size 4 feet and my soles are always well moisturised. While I consider nail polish on request, I do personally prefer a natural manicure. 

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If you'd like a better idea of my appearance, just pop my name into an internet search engine! There are literally thousands or photos and videos of me out there, and regular updates of me on my social media/fan pages - I may use a little skin smoothing in pictures and purposefully use nice lighting (I cant help it, I started out as a photographer), it is very light editing, and I refuse to use AI or edit my body shape in anyway. In short, I actively ensure that I look like my Real-life Self in my videos and photos.

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My Personality: 

Apparently, according to one of my play partners, 'being pretty'  technically isn't the same as having an actual personality. So that's me thoroughly screwed then. Bollocks....

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...But in all seriousness, while I'm am confident and I do not tolerate disrespectful behaviour, I do like to have fun on sessions and oftentimes I'm attempting to crack awful 'dad jokes'. Many new clients can be apprehensive at first (goodness, it's rather nerve-wracking hiring someone, isn't it? Particularly for something so sensitive... I know, I've been there myself). It is my job and my responsibility to put you at ease. There is never any pressure for you to do anything you don't want to do.

I value clients who I can connect with and develop meaningful relationships. I appreciate conversation and taking the time to get to understand each other's intricate kinks/fetishes. I always tell people who are new to experiencing kink, that BDSM play is 90% communication and 10% actual play, so I cherish like-minded clients. Indeed, many of my regulars over the years, I would now consider friends. 

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I'm patient and happy playing with experienced and in-experienced kinksters alike. So please don't be shy if you're new to playing out your fetishes. I'm experienced, secure in myself and my ever-evolving kinks, and it would be a privilege to help you to navigate your way through yours. I've helped lot's of couples and individuals along on their paths to understanding their kinks better. It takes a lot to shock or offend me, and after around twenty years in the industry, I've probably heard it all anyway. I only really get offended by arrogance, rudeness, and failure to respect boundaries.

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I'm generally pretty relaxed and light hearted. I'm very content in myself as a person. I've been called very feminine and almost cat-like by many people who session with me! But at the same time, I like to think of myself as grounded and personable... like an old dog. As much as the term itself is rather questionable, I'm often likened to the Manic Pixie Dream Girl trope. Which I awkwardly feel is both despicable and flattering. Eeeep.

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My Disciplinarian/Domme services:

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I'm an experienced and safe rope rigger and spanking top. I'm happy to wear a variety of quality outfits, such as PVC, Office wear and lingerie. You may wear whatever you wish and you may strip to full nude (if you ask me nicely), but I do expect you to arrive clean and well presented.

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My Style of Domination:

My style, in a nutshell, is more of a relaxed one. While I expect your upmost respect - and I do not respond favourably to overtly 'bratty' behaviour - I don't expect you to crawl about on your hands and knees calling me 'Goddess or 'Mistress'. My default Domme-mode is to start with a nice up of tea and a chat before I unleash my naturally sadistic side upon you! I genuinely enjoy the company of the vast majority of my clients and over the years there are a few I would now consider friends. Many of my clients have simply wanted me to tie them up nice and securely, or to feel the rush or being spanked or caned whilst we both natter away. 

Other clients, however, like me to be very strict indeed - so if you'd prefer me to be the full-on Mistress/Goddess-style-Dominatrix, then I will VERY gladly do so *Shoehorns self into some latex and dramatically cracks a whip*   I'm not particularly shouty in my demeanour; I'm mostly stern, calm, patronising and deeply sadistic.  I have had a few clients who prefer this kind of session from me.

Either way, I'm very happy to go at whatever pace is enjoyable to you - as long as I get to cause you physical or emotional discomfort at some point during the session, I really don't mind which vibe of my sadism you'd prefer. Sessions with me are normally finished with a lovely big hug at the end. Because I may be a sadist, but I'm not completely evil. Just mostly evil.

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Or you can Dom/Domme/Top Me!

My masochistic side begs me to please respectful tops/dominants. My submissive style is mostly slightly Princess-y, but adoring. I can be marginally bratty, if you'd like me to be, but ultimately I do like to submit.

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I do not respond well to put downs regarding my appearance or intelligence. My preferred masochism is more physical as opposed to emotional (humiliation).

I thoroughly enjoy being spanked OTK as well as being spanked with various implements, including caning. I'm a professional spanking bottom and I can take a robust spanking - however, if your only goal is to see how hard you can spank 'Helen Stephens from Firm Hand Spanking', with no interest in my comfort or pleasure, then we're not going to be a match.

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I only will consider caning with experienced tops (if you’re not, don’t worry, I’m happy to teach you). If you'd like to see me getting caned heavily, I can organise a professional disciplinarian to cane me safely and accurately. 

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Other things I like are: rope, cuffs (I only allow my hands tied/cuffed with regular, trusted clients), wearing dog collars/leads, wearing nipple clamps (within reason), and foot fetish. I'm not a huge fan of blindfolds, and if you'd like to gag me, I prefer cloth/cleave gags and bit gags.

I have a good range of outfits such as business wear, lingerie, school/college uniform, cheerleader, air hostess, PVC, French maid, pretty dresses, party/evening wear etc.

I’m very confident explaining and guiding through my boundaries. I'm friendly and respectful to kind, nurturing and considerate tops/dominants. 

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Coffee Meet Ups - Shopping Trips -  Dates - Dinner

Fancy meeting up and having a chat over a coffee? Perhaps you're interested in kink, but a full-on session simply feels too intense, and that you rather just have a cathartic chat about your fetishes to a genuinely kinky person who understands what it's like to feel 'different' and will not judge you? I'm happy to meet up in cafe, hotel room, or I can provide a very discreet domestic location in Woking where we can chat in peace and quiet.

Or would you simply like to spoil me rotten on a shopping trip? I shoot content most weeks, so I'm always needing to update my work wardrobe! Maybe you could help me pick out a lingerie set for my next spanking movie?

Or maybe you'd like to arrange a fun day out with me... such as dinner, a trip to a museum or an art gallery, a visit to the cinema (I love Sci Fi, Lynch, Kubrick, and vintage Hollywood. But I'm always down for a bit Footloose and Clueless too, of fucking course), or perhaps a relaxing Spa afternoon, a fresh Springtime walk, or bowling (I'm utter dogshite at bowling, I don't even know why I typed that. Please don't take me bowling...). 

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...Or perhaps you simply need a hug?

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​My Promise To You: 

Your discretion is important to me. I will not discuss your name or divulge any information which is likely to disclose your identity to anyone, not even to my close friends and family. I have been in the industry for around 20 years and I have never outed a client, just as I have never outed a fellow sex worker. I really don't care if you're a celebrity, a politician or a sporting hero. And I don't care how famous your band is. All I care about is that you respect my boundaries at all times and that you enjoy your playtime with me.

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The only instance I would ever 'out' you is if you were to assault me in anyway - which would lead me to report you to the police.

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Where I can be found: 

I can be found in London, Woking, and Hampshire. I can offer a very discreet domestic venue to session from in each of these locations, but I am willing to consider your hotel room or suite, or perhaps you rather a BDSM dungeon setting? I do not travel to home addresses. 

Or, FMTY! I sometimes get booked around the UK and Europe for sessions. I know I get asked for this a lot, but I will not consider trips to the USA currently, I'm so sorry.

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If I'm travelling long distances from my usual locations, I will expect travel costs and my accommodation to be covered. I do require my own room for the night and I only stay at hotels (not at client's homes/shared accommodation). Due to health reasons, I only travel significant distances very occasionally these days and I will only consider travelling for longer sessions. I have a valid passport.

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Please note;

• Strictly age 21+ If you look young for your age, I will ask to see your ID. 

• Clients must arrive to sessions clean and well presented - If I ask you to shower you must do so.

• Please do not arrive to sessions wearing very heavy aftershave (you do not need a whole bottle, a couple light squirts is enough. I myself will also be subtly fragranced.)

• You must not be under the influence of alcohol or illegal substances.

• Safe words and limitations will be discussed thoroughly prior to sessions and must be adhered.

• Boundaries must be followed at all times

• I require a deposit upon booking. The remainder may be paid at the start of the session.

• Yes, I can take a very firm spanking, but if your sole objective is to see how hard you can spank me, and you do not listen to my guidance, then I'll end the session.

• Please bear in mind that while I do have a notoriously tough little bottom, I am a human being and not a sack of flour or Spankbot 3000. Some days I can't take as much as I can on other days.

• Light-moderate caning is fine, but please do not try to cane me as hard as you may have seen professional tops caning me in films. Professional tops cane pretty much on a daily basis so therefore they are well practiced and are accurate, even then very heavy caning is something I only consider a very limited amount of times in a year to protect my body. Call me a miserable old troll, but I'm not prepared to get a damaged spine or to gain a career-ending gash on my arse for you fantasy. If you'd like to see me in action getting heavily caned, I can organise a professional top to session with us. Most importantly - please don't expect to cane/spank me non-stop for the entire session. Depending on your skillset and intensity, I usually take a maximum of 18-24 cane strokes per session.

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Failure to comply with these terms will result in termination of the session and no refund will be given.

Booking information:

• I get many emails per day. I do prioritise the emails I receive from my regular clients and from potential new clients who send thoughtfully written emails. I simply will not reply to emails which are not polite, or not professionally written, and ones which do not provide at least some basic information about what you'd like from a session. Calling me 'Babe', 'Hun', or providing minimal details will guarantee you a slot in the email bin.

• I do not roleplay during emails. Emails are to remain professional so we can discuss important matters such as boundaries and consent. So, unless we have a pre-agreed arrangement, do not expect me to call you 'Sir' in an email. Outside of playtime, I am your equal. 

• I prefer longer sessions with repeat clients, because bonding with clients, having meaningful conversations, and creating connections, is very important for me. If you're after a quick 30 min session, then I'm not going to be the service provider for you.  

• I'm often booked out a couple weeks in advance, so please give plenty of notice for when you'd like to book me in order to save disappointment. 

• Although I offer discounted rates for longer sessions, please do not ask me for a discount on shorter sessions. I'm a person, not an antique teapot at a carboot sale. 

• I never expect gifts from clients, but if you'd like to get me something, I like vegan chocolate, lingerie vouchers (or, ask me for my size!), monetary gifts are always helpful, or check out my Throne wishlist.

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